A life of discovery
Thank you Shonda Rhimes
Dear Shonda Rhimes,
I wanted to say thank you.
The world has been extremely stressful and very strange for a long time now. But thanks to you I have discovered a happy place I can go when things become overwhelming.
That's not to say that my life isn't wonderful, I'm safe, loved, grateful and surrounded by SAD lights. I do wish I wasn't in Seattle, but it's an 18 hour plane ride and two weeks in solitary confinement in a hotel if I wanted to go to NZ to see my family and some sunshine, so t…
Why I bought stock in Nordstrom p.s. Free Workshops!
I bought Nordstrom stock this week,.
Before you get all excited about my portfolio, I have three shares. Yes, that's three, as in the number 3. Current value...hold on, let me check.
Apparently, the stock dipped today by 1.01 percent. Despite that, I think I'll hold. I could lose it all tomorrow, but I feel quite sanguine about it. It would have gone to a good cause (I do have actual charities I support but for now, feel free to think of me as having hidden shallows).
Why did I deci…
What Kim Scott's "Radical Candor" has to do with Style
I recently listened to Radical Candor ™by Kim Scott on audio book. It is bloody (yes, I can say that, I’m a Kiwi) amazing.
According to Kim (may I call you that?) Radical Candor™ is “Caring Personally while Challenging Directly. At its core, Radical Candor is guidance and feedback that’s both kind and clear, specific and sincere.”
It can be applied to personal style. Yes, it can.
So…read the actual book as I’m about to paraphrase what I learned, and relate it to how you present yourself in th…
How a Christmas present helped me become a stylist - what were you given as a child?
In the 70's, when I was nine, my family went to Te Puke for Christmas.
Te Puke is about three hours from Auckland, where I lived and back then, I think it was famous for kiwifruit. Yes, it is kiwifruit, they are not called Kiwis - that what you call people from NZ, FYI.
My auntie Jeannie lived there and it was her turn to host. I got to sleep in the caravan parked by the house, which was super cool, though I probably had to share with my younger brother.
It was a really good year for Christm…
I created a podcast, want to be on it?
I'm lousy at group events.
I mean the ones where there are many people in a room (this goes for parties as well) and the idea is to mingle. With business ones, the intention is to "network," you know, find out what others do so you can collaborate or refer, or hire each other. It's efficient but I get tired super fast so leave early or hide in the kitchen (if it's a party). It's just as tiring online. I like people as individuals and I don't mind speaking to a crowd, but interacting with a lot…
What name is best for a "Zoom Ready" course? Opinions please!
I will miss you Nanette Lepore.
I had no idea who Nanette Lepore was.
I was at Thrift Culture in Bellevue square, pre-Covid. It's run by LifeSpring and supports programs that feed, clothe, educate and provide emergency support for local children living in poverty. They pay $1 a year in rent, in one of the highest cost-per-square-foot locations thanks to the Kemper family who own and run the mall. Insert applause here!
I was browsing because I believe in wearable fun and part of my entertainment budget goes to thrift stores.…
$12 or less Zoom background that's not virtual. Oh, and me in front of it.
I'm not a fan of virtual backgrounds on Zoom etc. though you can get really cool ones. The thing is, every time you move there's a good change you'll look really weird and we all know you're basically hiding a pile of laundry or clutter. But yes, if you have no alternative, they are much better than holding meetings where everyone can see your bed or fridge.
A really quick and easy way to create a Zoom background without resorting to virtual is to zip down to a fabric store. Pun unintended. Ye…
What to wear when you need a stepstool to get the cereal (i.e. you're short).
The delightful Jami, who helps me with Pinterest says I should have titled this as....
Best Outfits for Short Women: 7 Wardrobe Must Haves for Petite Women
Jami, I promise you, on Pinterest, you can call it whatever you like.
If you have ever had to ask someone tall to reach things for you, read on.
Oh short ones! Pocket Venus's. Petites. Those of us under say, Five feet 4. We’ve always had to cut, fold, or sew up the ends of our clothing just to get the right fit, even if th…
I'll be smiling at you in oh, about two years.
Currently I am trying to learn how to talk with aligners—Invisalign—in my mouth.
Apparently, I’m supposed to practice reading articles or books until I get used to them. It feels weird. I feel like I’m talking through cotton wool. I’m second guessing what I’m saying. I’m tripping over my sentences.
They weren't comfortable at first. And they’re annoying because I have to keep taking them in and out every time I want to eat. Given that I’m from New Zealand and I can’t go more than half an hour…